Let's get personal- no, not personally insulting, lets get back to seeing things humanely rather than abstractly, from a personal respective. This is perhaps a 'feminine trait', one that we need more of. Many religions, political parties, and sop on thrive on dividing people by making them feel part of abstract groups, within which they supposedly feel safe. Then,when the group feels threatened they react, lashing out at another group, inviting in turn a similar response. The answer is to dilute the group somewhat and also to bring a great harmony around them. Now look at the 'melting pot' of the US- sure, it has it's problems, but it shows that a hugely various group of people can make a great nation together, 99% of the time associating peacefully, at least as regards ethnic identities (financially-inspired crime at all ends of the spectrum is another story). I know some would say Europe is doing a better job of it, but since Europe is young and not exactly integrated (people still talk in terms of immigrants), it is not yet the best example.
Now, in this personal voyage you are joining me on, I want to cast my mind back to my personal 'fact finding tour' of the Middle East many moons ago. I had first gone there to experience life on a Kibbutz, which was a life I enjoyed a lot when in an international setting, i.e. when mixing with both the foreign Kibbutz Volunteers and the local Kibbutzniks (who were generally keeping a distance from the ever-changing group of volunteers, reasonably enough). I had originally come there to support Israel, but I soon found that I am an internationalist and that it was hard to break through to talk to many of the 'sabras' (native born Israelis), who, like their namestake have a brittle outside but a soft, sweet inside- if you take the patience to see it.
Actually, I made many good friends from California, where there seems to be a high concentration of liberally minded, 'constitutional Americans'- that is, Americans who remain true to their constitution's open-mined, peace-loving and friendly spirit. Also, I had great times with the beautiful Scandinavian girls there, mostly from Denmark. Why they choose to go to Israel is a mystery to me, but I like to think it has something to do with their historical kindness to the Jewish people and their wish to help the region attain peace (peace being the very antithesis of revenge, folks). However, it may well all have more to do with their wish to find a hunky Israeli boyfriend!
So I met Israelis, saw they were good people, and decided it was time to meet some Arabs too. I went to Jerusalem and also stayed in Egypt for a time. Along the way, I stayed in Jewish homes for Shabbat dinner on Friday nights and stayed with some Arabs who I met in Egypt and later in Jordan. Everywhere, I met good people. True, I didn't spend too much time around fanatics, but I met enough good 'ordinary people' to see that no group there is a 'family of demons', as they are often supernaturally seen. Which means that human rights should take precedence and apocalyptic fantasies remain just that- fantasies.
So, what should be done? First of all, Israel should extend aid to the Palestinians. Any Arabs who try to prevent this should be stopped from doing so, even by international legal measures. The lack of Israeli aid is what makes the aid from groups like Hamas, along with their perverse ideologies, so attractive and it needs, as soon as possible, to replace the current contact which is limited to 'reprisals'. This aid should be given with no strings attached- as good works, asking nothing in return. The idea so popular of Israel' vacating territories' is obviously a cold-hearted one as the very principal of the Israeli-Palestinian states is that they live together in harmony- separation is a ridiculous idea. In fact, the best thing would be a co-habited state, a marriage.
Secondly, religious freedom should unfurl in both places. In Israel, any form of religion should be allowed and the Orthodox Judaism lose it's position as so central to the state. Of course, they should have the same freedom as other groups, but no special perks. Missionary activity should be permitted, so long as it does not encroach upon personal privacy- it should be sensitive. It should be allowed throughout the Middle East- as the teachings of Jesus are vital to that region and should no longer be suppressed. The fact that they were given long ago does not in any way diminish their value or relevance. Likewise, the Baha'i teachings should be spread, as they also teach peaceful co-existence, as does Buddhism. If Islam and Judaism lose adherents, it'll be their own fault for placing loyalty to mystical doctrines before cosmic essentials- they need competition to be at their best, just as companies do. Ideally, though, it will not be about conversions to other religions, but about conversions of the heart, to the living, loving God.
Although I see terrorism as essentially a satanic force, not even a rational one, that seeks to target the innocent in it's lust for revenge, it does gain a lot of sympathisers from the present situation. Leaving Palestinians to rot in terrible, walled cities and camps is likely to breed criminal levels of insanity. People need a fair chance and Israel has to be seen as improving their lot so as to heal the wounds and bitterness. If it comes from another source, the anger will still be there, there to be manipulated by unscrupulous pseudo-religionists. We have to heal it- that will end the problem, not cynical politics or military violence. For it is all about hearts and minds, and creating a will to love one another, as such a will will find a way to be. The current way of life is just not befitting human dignity- it has to change. We should all look to ourselves to solve our problems, not just blame others. Narrow-minded religious dogmatism is what's holding Israel back, as it stops Israel from doing the right thing, the natural thing. The thing that would do a lot to ease tensions.
Political changes may go too and fro. Since it has such a vengeful, pessimistic base of support, a Palestinian State probably won't really bring peace- interlocked communities are more likely to. This is idealistic, I know, but grass-roots activists need to work to make it a reality, to bring the communities together in a greater understanding. The internet is a great tool for this. It seems to me that everyone wants peace, but very few people are seriously committed to it. The Arabs may need to give up on their dream of destroying Israel- an understandable desire as she is such a new entity there- but still a wicked one. Likewise, the rulers of Israel may have to give up on having an overwhelmingly Jewish State, certainly on allowing the 'Orthodox' groups to have so much power. In this sense, Israel as we know it now will end, politically at least. But as it begins again, it will be a safer one for all, especially for religious freedom.